I believe as M. Scott Peck said, in "The Road Less Traveled". . . . "Love is the willingness to find me with my name above at ya hoo extend one's self, for the purpose of nurturing ones own and another's Spiritual Growth. " Looking to meet other "KindredSpirits", someone who knows the difference between "Self Love" & "self absorption. " Someone who doesn't wear their "Arrogance" as if it were a "Badge of Honor. " Have no tolerance for abuse, or Deception. There is a Chinese saying. . . . "There is no greater lie than the lie that becomes necessary, to defend another Lie. " "Someday I will smile And find the warmth of my smile Reflected back to me. Someday I will reach out to someone And find that I only have to reach halfway For she will be reaching out to me. Someday I will find The meaning of the word Love That many use so carelessly. someday I will find Someone with whom I can share But for now I must try to know myself And the world around me So when the time comes for me to give I will know the meaning Of my Gift. "