I'm a Christian man who wants to find God's mate. I'm not a Baptist, Lutheran, etc. I'm just a plain 'ole Christian who believes in Christ and the Bible. So one demonination or the other isn't the important thing, it's Christ in the heart of the one he has for me to be with.
Now the rest of this personal stuff I'm not sure what to write. I accepted Jesus in 1987 and about all dating went out the window.
I have done the worldly dating thing and don't want to go there again so I don't date often, mostly by choice, sometimes not, haha.
I feel that loving your mate the way the Bible tells a man to do is the only way to do (or try as best I am able). I don't find that special feeling with every woman I meet and have found that the (very few) women I've tried to share it with didn't really want it or know how to handle it. That's probably not the perfect way to say it but it's to complicated to fully explain it here.
I like watching sports, football, basketball (IU fan especailly), Pacers, Cubs, glutton for punishment I know. Almost anything but hockey. Like to bowl and love to fish although I'm nowhere near a pro. But love watching the water and and the moon and stars at night. I'm not a dancing party guy, I like being around people just fine but my favorite times are sharing one on one, holding hands, TV or cooking together, just being together and feeling loved and loving back, although I've not really gotten to feel that back. I'm sure still believing it can happen!!! I'm generally a two feet on the ground guy with a smile but I have my stresses too.
It would be great to have someone who could be as comfortable in jeans as in a dress. Who could enjoy a concert in the park or play frisbee or throw a softball in the park. Who would like a candlelight dinner or mustard on her chin eating a hotdog at the lake. Who really cared and told me and who I could trust, and really knew she could trust me too. Don't say or do something to see if you can or try to make me jealuous to see what my reaction is, not into head games. Friendship is sooo important, be honest. More can come with time and trust.
I've had this lonely place in my heart and it needs filled. I don't HAVE to have someone, but I WANT to have the right one. There's life to live and it's better shared with the special person. I've not had her, and am not one to go out on the special hunt for her. I'm on the shy or quiet side so I'm not a woman chaser and really want to be with the ONE woman God has for me, but finally concluded if I don't somehow let word out that I'm hopeful, there's very little chance of finding her.
Well now there's a lot from a guy who is usually more on the quiet side. I guess it's easier to speak here looking only at this screen.
Have a great day! God Bless.