My perfect match will not be perfect but she will understand the importance of open communications. She'll want to understand me and get into me and she'll help me understand her and let me get into her
First, we connect with our Spiritual beliefs, faith, family values, etc. While it is each of us who is responsible for his/her personal relationship to God, it would be my hope to share the journey and have this as the compass to keep us grounded and committed. Second, we respect each other as individuals and we share about ourselves to help each of us learn who we are and what we need from each other as a mate. We listen to each other and respond with caring and sensitivity. This is all about intimacy and being willing to risk rejection by exposing the soft belly stuff.
Third, we just enjoy being with each other. . . it is comfortable but it is also exciting and energized by the chemistry and physical attraction for each other. This is where we see each other through bad hair days (unshaven and no makeup) but still want to knock the door down and ravish each other! Fourth, we have fun with each other whether it is traveling, doing chores, i. e. , cleaning out the basement, pruning the bushes in the garden, exercising, hiking, cooking, or watching TV, etc. What is the expression. . . . . enjoying the journey!
Fifth, we become best friends with an emphasis on giving to each other to help each other be the best he/she can be. This includes giving each other space to have other friends, family, and activities that will contribute to keeping each of us and our relationship healthy. Sixth, our relationship goals are compatible and the synergy of us together adds up to far more than us apart. We are a team and except for God, no one or no thing can get between us.
Seventh, we do not let misunderstandings, hurt, anger, or resentment build a wall between us. We acknowledge that neither of us are perfect and therefore do not judge each other without first judging ourselves. We never start or end the day without sharing our love for each other even if it requires an apology, confession, and forgiveness. Okay, enough enough enough of the serious stuff. . . . you need to know I also have a hugh mischievous streak and I really do like to laugh and have fun!!!
So, if you are still interested in getting to know me, let's focus on having fun and enjoying our time together and let whatever is to be just happen! More later. . . .