I've been single a long time. Now that the kids have left for college, it seems that it is time to take care of me. I love the Lord and Jesus is the first man in my life. I am very independent but that doesn't mean that there is not room in my life for a Godly man. I love to dress up and go out or just spend a nice evening at home. I'm active in my church and in my community. I still believe that there should be that spark that draws two people together but friendship has to come first. God bless you as you seek His best for your life.