I'm not a member right now so I cannot respond to your emails, but I can return a response to halos or hugs etc. I'm in the middle of changing careers and life has become quite hectic. It's time to get out of the office into something more "hands-on", so I've gone back to college and am working on my PSW diploma. But please do drop a line if you're of a mind to. Just about everyone says they're looking for their best friend. Well, I'm no different, friendship is important and in building a friendship we build what is hopefully a solid relationship and that comes before anything else can be thought of. I imagine it begins in finding out we have things in common; the way we live our lives, hobbies and interests, similarities in work, music etc. What comes next is emailing & talking to find out if our personalities are compatible; are we similar or complete opposites, if we actually like each other and can build a friendship. . . . . . . . . . . but, whatever step comes first, second or third probably isn't going to make much difference if there is no chemistry to go along with all of the above. And, none of it will ever matter if God isn't in it with us. Whether you write or just pass on by, Blessings to you & may God grant you the desires of your heart as you delight in Him.