I'M NOT A PAYING MEMBER!! I see God's hand in all things for I know He has them under His control! I have a positive attitude and am looking for one who has the same! To me, the most important qualities for those in a relationship are to put Christ first, to seek the good in bad, and then to allow Him to use all situations for His good--to eventually make us stronger, not bitter. I enjoy being outdoors. . . smelling freshly mowed grass, flowers, pine trees. . . seeing God's wonders in a sunset, the lakes or the ocean, the mountains, the forest, the animals. . . I love going to sporting events, movies, shopping, walking, talking, boating, fishing . . . and quiet nights at home! I'm wanting a partner who can join me in seeking God's guidance in all areas, sharing the excitement of the happy times and taking my hand through the more difficult ones. I'd like to meet someone who will fall in love with who I am, not with what I look like, what kind of job I have, car I drive, way I dance. . . I'm waiting for the man that God has selected to become my mate and my best friend!! I'm not a member. . .