1 1/2 years ago, my husband of many years told me he didn't love me anymore and divorced me. A few months after the divorce I found out he had actually had an affair with a co-worker and they are now living together. After many months of being on anemotional rollercoaster, we have come to terms with each other and are decent friends. I had to make the choice to do this because we have two great kids togehter (ages 24 & 28--both married) and two wonderful grandchildren (ages 3 1/2 yrs. and 7 months) . I am leaving my future up to the Lord. I am very outgoing and optimistic. My friends tell me I'm fun to be around. I'm a musician and am involved in my church with the music and the youth. I did decide though after my divorce to not take on too much and to take care of myself. As for my future, I'm just leaving it in the Lord's hands.