I live in such a beautiful place. I am interested in finding out what men my age are looking for at this time in life. I think of myself as pretty together-God will humble me if I am completely off base. I have one son who is going to bible school. I teach hula and think of myself as being in fairly "good shape". What appeals to me is someone who is confident in themselves, is not carrying too much baggage, I think we all carry some. I have traveled extensively prior to being married. Four years ago I went with my Tahitian class to Tahiti and that was sure an unbelieveable experience. Nuf said for now.