I have a fun loving, easy going, optimistic personality, my glass is always half full. I'm a sensitive, romantic ( Ok, Ok, I'll admit it, I really liked Sleepless In Seattle ) and I'm looking for my Meg Ryan. I hate arguments, I'm usually the first to give in or find a compromise to avoid them. I'd rather be joking, laughing, or cuddling and making love. Life is too short not to enjoy it. I always treat women with respect and honesty, flowers and opening car doors for them, and unexpected hugs and kisses. I'm not afraid to express my feelings. I grew up on the Jersey shore, I love long walks on the beach or around a lake at sunset. I like Pina Colladas and getting caught in the rain ( Sorry, but I just had to do that. ) I like taking rides on my Harley, doing carpentry work, ( Cue the Tim Allen Grunts) , going to the NASCAR or local tracks, reading, collecting movies, cuddling by the fireplace and not seeing the end of the movie. I'm looking for a woman who knows the value of honesty and communication in a relationship. Someone who is a good cook ( Because I'm a little hungry right now. ) with a good sense on humor to be able to put up with me. A woman who is caring and loving in who's arms I will always find solace there. One who enjoys being romantic, sexy, and passionate so that no matter how bad of a day we've had at work, our world shrinks back to being just the two of us each night. I'm looking for a soul mate, which is a lover and a best friend too. I thank GOD every day for being blessed with 2 wonderful little boys. They are 8 and 11 years old. I've never believed in divorce, but I guess every cloud does have a silver lining after all. I prayed for HIS guidance to keep our marriage and family united. Now I understand that it was HIS will, and HE has another purpose for my life. I will wait for HIS guidance, for there is a new path HE wants me to walk.