I have decided to change what I had written because in order for anyone to know what it is I want, am looking for, and desire in my future partner, it all need to be laid out in black and white.
I am a very passionate person, and when I know there is something that I want, I tend to go after it. And alot of time, that does not work in my favor, however, maybe one day, it just might. I am a very loveable person, I wear my heart on my sleeve, and mostly in the past that's why i've ended up getting hurt. I am very much romantic, and so love all the little fun things that go with that. Surprise gifts just because, flowers when the days hasnt been that great or because they are just to make it that much brighter. Notes on the pillow or in with the lunch that he's taking to work, telling him how much he means to me, or how lucky I am to have found someone like him. Those also, are the things that I am looking for.
Honesty, compatability, attraction, committment, faithfulness, romance, fun, humour, hugs on a bad day, someone who wants to stick it out through thick and thin, good and bad and ugly, so to speak. I hope to find a partner who "completes" me if you will. Someone who I can say "wow, where have you been all my life" to, and know that they are not going anywhere else. I guess the biggest part of all is to find someone who isn't just attracted to the person on the outside, but everything on the inside. I hope to find someone who would like to travel and see the world. Someone who is motivated, goal oriented. But someone who also doesnt mind being laid back, and taking it easy too. Cuddling and watching movies, walks along the greenway, or through City Park.
Most importantly someone who has a great sense of humour, cause my family (parents, brothers, sister, and spouses) are totally hilarious. So if you love silly humour, crazyiness and fun loving people you'll fit right in.
Saw something the other day that was very touching. Heavenly Father, Help us remember that the jerk who cut us off in traffic last night is a single mother who worked nine hours that day and is rushing home to cook dinner, help with homework, do the laundry and spend a few precious moments with her children.
Help us to remember that the pierced, tattooed, disinterested young man who can't make change correctly is a worried 19-year-old college student, balancing his apprehension over final exams with his fear of not getting his student loans for next semester. Remind us, Lord, that the scary looking bum, begging for money in the same spot every day (who really ought to get a job!) is a slave to addictions that we can only imagine in our worst nightmares.
Help us to remember that the old couple walking annoyingly slow through the store aisles and blocking our shopping progress are savoring this moment, knowing that, based on the biopsy report she got back last week, this will be the last year that they go shopping together. Heavenly Father, remind us each day that, of all the gifts you give us, the greatest gift is love. It is not enough to share that love with those we hold dear. Open our hearts not to just those who are close to us, but to all humanity. Let us be slow to judge and quick to forgive, show patience, empathy and love.
Working for God on earth doesn't pay much . . . . but His retirement plan is out of this world