I am a very confident person. I enjoy people and their lives. I am a christian and go to church of Lakewood. I have 4 kids, two girls and 2 boys. I have a 3 year old grandchild. Only one grandchild so far. My kids are ages 25, 23, 18, and 15 years old. They move out and come home because I asked them too. They refuse to leave the state or anywhere else until I am dating and on my way to get married. My oldest child is in the Air force reserves and she is attending college, my 2 youngest kids are in high school, one is a senior, and my 23 year old son works at a pipe company. I am a bakteller/personal banker. My kids tell me I deserve happiness and they tell me how proud they are of me for raising them on my own. I am beautiful when I smile which is all the time at least thats what everyone tells me. I dont really like going out, I enjoy going to church and hanging out with my kids. Firstly, I am seeking someone is christian placing God above all. I would enjoy going to the movies, and staying home watching movies and talking as a family. Someone who is stable with their jobs, I am seeking someone that can take care of themselves and work with me as a 50/50 relationship. All work in a relationship is between the two people in that relationship not just one depending on the other. My kids have been disappointed in the past bacause I was hurt by a man I was in love with, he never spent time with me, he took 16 years of my life. I like romance, someone that will take time to get to know my family, someone who is seeking to be married, not fun and games. I want a giving man cause I feel if he gives to others he shouldn't have a problem giving to me. Any race preferable because Gods children and everyone deserves to be loved and happy.