First and foremost, I love the Lord with all my heart, mind and soul. If He puts a man in my life as my mate, he will play second fiddle to my God. That's not to say that I won't love and adore and treasure my man. If you are even close to being God's pick for me then you would want no place other than second to Him. I'm a fairly up-front gal who usually says what I'm thinking. I'm great fun and oh-so-funny but can also be serious when the time is right. I love to laugh - it truly is amazing medicine. I choose to spend time with upbeat people when possible. The negative, poor me, victim thing really wears me down. I am open and honest, sometimes to a fault. I donate a good deal of my time to the grief ministry at my church. I like hiking and biking and long walks and good food. None of this is much fun or worthwhile without family and friends by my side. Life is good.