I my case, I am the "Searcher", . . . and not the "Searchee" !!! I prefer a youthful, active, slender, attractive, non-smoker, spiritual, classy "lady" with supple attributes, . . . no children and no excessive baggage of any kind, please !!! I desire a long term committed relationship filled with love, consideration, compassion, passion, sharing, caring, open communication . . . and filled with God !!!