I am a retired university instructor. First life was as a music teacher. When my hearing cut that from me, I returned to school and ended up in the Computer Science Department at a local University. I am a potter, a writer, but I don't make candle sticks. There is no category for my current status. My spouse and I have been going in different directions for about 20 years. I am looking for someone to communicate with. I have no wish to be in another bad relationship.