I am tall, with atheletic built, good looking (I feel silly saying this, I prefer to be silent on this but that won't help). I recently came to California from Chicago and in the past year have been able to settle down to life in the SouthBay. I am a professional woman with plenty of time for balanced life. I do scientific research and also like teaching. I keep a good and fine home, enjoy life in many ways and have various hobbies. I have lived in several countries and appreciate various cultures. I am a committed Christian, love Biblical Christian values and enjoy reading the Scriptures which always give me lessons for every day life. I am also a freelance writer and have written a dozen books on Christian living. I am uncomfortable with religious extremism of any type though I do my best to respect every person peacefully. I have spent quite a bit of my lifetime in altruistic service in the Catholic Church. I now write precisely because I love to help people with the talents God has given me. I am a very talented person, easy going on the one hand and a go-getter on the other hand, a victor in many respects. Even though I have four college degrees including a PhD, I know the playful side of life. I used to be an athelete and still love outdoor sports and indoor games. I love movies and comedy and something thrilling every now and then. I have always been in good health of body, mind and spirit, thanks be to God. Perhaps this is because I tend to be pacifist and positive and never compare myself with others but always be the best I can be and act in freedom. The greatest and hardest lesson I have learnt in life is forgiveness and I hope it opens the gate of Heaven for me and my future spouse. I would like to spend the rest of my life in a blessed marriage union. I am looking for a good guy who is mature, confident, disciplined, cheerful, youthful, playful, spiritual, free and happy (or trying to be)- for a good companion and leader at home. His looks?. . . God made him for me so its gonna be OK. You can call me humble. I try to be but I have a long way still to go. I want a guy who knows he can't live fully unless he walks with God and talks with God daily. This message is good for one guy and to the rest of you that read it, I wish you your heart's desire, God's gracious, magnanimous blessings and a happy married life.