Love to travel. Exploring new areas is exciting. I love scuba diving. I like to dance, and enjoy nice dinners out and going to the comedy clubs. I believe when you care about someone doing the little things does matter. I enjoy Women that know what they want and can share their life with the special person. My ideal match would be a kind, intelligent woman. A woman that does not mind showing her partner with her actions and words that she cares. I like honesty and self respect. I work hard and like to enjoy the fruits of my work. Life is to short to focus on the bad things. Life is always more enjoyable if you have someone special to share it with. I believe when you care about someone doing the little things does matter.
I am not the greatest composer when it comes to writing but my heart is in the right spot. I am always the kind of person who thinks the water (in the glass) is always half full which means I am positive, unless you live in New Orleans.
A lady who is nice, caring and independent. Knows what she wants. She needs to know how to have fun with whatever life throws at her. She needs to be able to dress nice for formal functions and be comfortable in shorts just relaxing. A person who can accept all of someones good and not so good points and still have respect for them. My perfect first date: A cool summer evening walking holding hands, after a nice dinner and drinks so we can enjoy the company of each other.
My ideal relationship: Constant evolution of the relationship so it stays real and warm. Always telling your mate that they do matter and showing it in your actions. My past relationships: You can't assume you are making the right choices about the relationship. Sometimes the other person doesn't know what they want so you have to give them time and encouragement and hope they can do likewise.
I think the movies have set people up to fail in relationships. They make us expect things from the start that likely will never come true so we think the relationship is bad and should be more because of what we see. There isn't always a rainbow at the end of a tunnel. I think we should be happy and dam lucky, to find someone we want to wake up and go pick potatoes with every day (silly example but to the point) . If you find some rainbows along the way you can enjoy them with someone you know is there just for you. I would like to be interested in my mate. I like people who can see more than just a sliver of the world yet understand we all look at a completely unique piece and both people can be right with out it being a conflict.