I am just a plain and simple guy. I am not plastic, I'm very genuine. I'm a comedian, especially in the ER where I work as a medic. I am always cracking myself up with my own jokes. I love to cook, and being Cuban I can cook!!! Even gourmet dishes. I am actually searching for my best friend and partner in life or partner in crime lololol :-) ; the women that will be my sidekick in everything I do. I need the right one. I can't afford to make a mistake and marry the wrong one. I deserve the best and not second best. THIS SHOULD GO FOR EVERYONE ELSE OUT THERE. YOU SHOULD NEVER SETTLE FOR SECOND BEST OR SETTLE FOR LESS. YOU DON'T DESERVE TO BE SOMEONE'S SECOND CHOICE EITHER !!!! REMEBER THAT. The one that will stick to my side in good times and the worst times; like WHITE OR BROWN ON RICE!!!; no matter what happens in our walk in life together. I do not go for or approve of cheating!!!!!! I want some one who is free spirited, open minded, genuine (non plastic or cookie cutter material) , enthusiastic, a go-getter, loving, honest, sensual (not a dead beat) , ambitious, and affectionate. I am very affectionate and romantic. :-). Someone who will accept my son JJ as her own and not have an indifference towards him. Some one that loves life as I do. If you were to ask me what I wanted in life I would say everything because it is all out there for the taking. I love challenges. I want someone who is not scared of being challenged. Challenges strengthen our faith. It forces us to beleive the Lord for greater and bigger things in life. A newer and higher level. There are so many levels out there to achieve. I can not be stagnated in a certain level knowing that there are higher ones to go after. When you stagnate your faith diminishes and eventually dies. It is as if you have a a lake of water that has no inlet or outlet and just dries out. If you were to ask me to choose any two of the following characterstics, wealth, knowledge, freedom, wisdom, and material things, I would say give me the Wisdom and Freedom, because with these two things the rest of the walk in life is guaranteed to be successfull. All I want to do is really fall in love and have a family. I love school. I want to use this site to expand my horizons to find the one that the LORD has for me. Be blessed everyone !!!!