What I learned in my last relationship: What I need to work on in myself, thank God I have His help.
The value and absolute necessity of being equally yoked if your True Love is God and you want to be in an additional lasting exclusive relationship - one in which your sacredly intimate, committed, but still capable to live a unique free willed unpredictable edified life with God's Grace. I guess I AM Poly-amorous, yet a Monogamist. Poly is a new term for me and I know as little about that as I do about "Agape" yet (imho ;-) believe the latter to attribute to the attraction of the former in todays "time" in correct Moderation (as all things should be done in) . Perhaps the Holy Spirit is Ghost-like in that it connects that Love in the Ether or other unperceived "void" of invisible connection we one day will probably understand as true form and content. Perhaps with guidance in study I could offer a better statement but I have found a Peace (through Grace) in being able to Love intimately many people and to feel that, sometimes in an instant, and with people I see anywhere from once to often which is increasing my comfortable acceptance with the illusion of seperation in time. Perhaps understanding some of the purpose of an Illusion of Separateness is to more easily comprehend Individual Free Will.
Free Will Being it is given that I may Choose. In the Dark Night of My Soul and in moments sensed as: depression, loss, grief, unreal/unfulfilled "Dreams" (the Real Illusions!) exist those real seasons with a purpose to re-member my Self causing me to Choose Again the Security of the Knowing of Eternity and Bliss never rending. I am seeing the path of my life as a Course and the more Altared it becomes the more I am choosing to embrace the moment fearing less the loss of a desired future experience.
If Eternity Be it's Here Now. . . . . . ......