I consider myself a very shy person until I get to know the person that I am dating, then slowly I will open up. I don't drink or smoke at all, so I prefer not to date someone that does. the whole bar scene is out for me. very much out. I do notlike that kind of atmosphere at all. I do have a daughter and she means the world to me. whoever I date or meet MUST be more than willing to accept her also in this relationship. we come as a package or not at all.