Mostly I am a man of heart and soul. Loyal, honest, romantic, passionate, loving, and kind. At this point in my life, I am working towards the quality of humility. I am turned off by people who seem overly materialistically oriented without spiritual enlightenment. I am committed to treating all people well, regardless of whether they be nasty or nice, though sometimes I fail and become angry. I love music from Sinatra to hip hop, as I used to DJ. I love to cook, drink wine, play tennis, ultimate frisbee, the beach (i live on it) , and many many things. . . I'd also like to say. . . relocated from philly to south florida feb, 2004 as I hate cold weather. Are you tired of the players? You will find a real friend in me. My goal is to find a great woman who is pretty, sexy, and a sweetheart, where we both feel connected to one another, and our relationship continues to grow closer over time. . . . I am also searching for new friends as I am new to town (partners in crime or otherwise, lol) . You will have a fun loving caring personality like me. One of the best ways to seduce a woman I think is through laughter and charm, so be prepared! lol I usually prefer teachers or health care professionals in this regard but there are many exceptions. Please, no gum chewing poodle walkin princess's! No head cases, cyber sex flussies, or folks looking for free online advice! LOL. If you enjoy being athletic and playing tennis outdoors that is a major plus (a willingness to learn is OK) . And yes, Paul can cook (very well!) . Personal Thought or Quote. . . "no man (or woman) is soo poor as to have nothing worth giving. . . give what u have. To someone it may be better than you dare think"! Henry Wadsworth Longfellow. Lets talk, and then meet for coffee or something fun!