I am 58, and I am tired of being alone. I am looking for someone who is serious about long term relationships. No promises as, of course, we must get to know each other. I could work, but can't seem to find a job that I am qualified for (electronics, computers) . I have had several back operations. That is why I am disabled but it better than it was. . I guess the thing about looking for your mother might be true as I am attracted to slim blonds, almost exactly like the way my mother looked (go figure)!