I consider myself free of toxic drama and seek someone who is likewise.
Someone who is emotionally mature, has moderate to high self-esteem and is NOT insecure. If you have baggage that can fit in a suitcase small enough for carry on luggage that is a good thing; but, if on the other hand if your baggage can occupy an entire 747 I am not equipped to handle it. Things that matter:
EducationValuesWeightAge (it is best and practical to date someone who shares your generation) EmploymentHealthLibidoSelf care