I am not currently a paying member, so if you write please give me your web email address. For some reason I cannot engage in live chat, so im not ignoring you. Ladies, a little about me: I attend church three times a week, I hold a steady job, I have no criminal record (havent even gotten a traffic ticket since 1992), I am financially responsible, (i said responsible, not "well off") I think that I am reasonably considerate of others, I like to be affectionate (so if you don't like a lot of touching, kissing, etc. then i'm not for you), and I HATE the unfaithfulness in marriages that I hear about so much nowadays. I believe that a husband and wife should be best friends and each other's greatest supporters. A servant to each other, being unselfish. I love a peaceful home. I believe deeply in the power of chocolate and a footrub to soothe the soul of the common housewife! Yeah, I like to comb hair and run my fingers through it. Scalp massage anyone? Ladies, i'll pray with you, but I don't think i'm super spiritual ok? All in all, I guess i'm a good guy. Probably a little on the homebody side so if your looking for adventure and travel maybe i'm not for you. I'm somewhat reserved at first (especially in person), but after I get comfortable with you I will show forth my dry sense of humor! Anyway, a little about me, God bless.