First things first. . . . . . I am at the tail end of a divorce. I have been separated for a year and a half now and still have my final hearing to go. There was no "separated" option in the marital status drop-down bar. There's a quote I like. . . . . "When you step away from honesty, you'r just taking the long route. Eventually you'll end up there anyway" With that being said, I am quite sure some of you won't consider talking to me because I am still married, and I completely respect that. The truth is that I have spent the past year and a half going through the healing process, strengthening my relationship with God, going to church related activities, and taking care of my children. It would be nice to chat with other Christ followers, so if you are in the market for a christian friend, let me know! UPDATE!. . . . So, after some prayer and time alone with God, I am feeling strongly that it is not the right time for me to be on this web-site. The bottom line is "I'm married" God is not going to bless me with a future friend, partner, husband by doing things my way. I truly desire God's will in my life. . . . . . . . therefore I will be patient. . . . I feel that I am in this waiting period for a reason, I am drawing close to HIM and HE is molding me into the person I need to be, so that in His time I will be the woman that my future husband has been praying for! So, for those of you who have tried to communicate with me, please know that I have appreciated the kind words and the interest, yet I feel I need to concentrate on God, and God alone! I pray God's blessings on each and every one of you on this site. . . . . . . . . . and maybe we will meet again when the time is right.