H1: Why Not Create A Perfect Husband, Instead Of Settling For Less?
H2: Nice, Honest, Non-Superficial Renaissance Man ISO Wife
*Distance Note: My career gives me the flexibility to travel for extended periods. So, if I'm outside of your distance limit, please realize that it wouldn't be like long distance dating.
*Age Note: Not my opinion but universally that of others I look younger and am fitter than my age of 46. People typically assume thirties, and, occasionally, they'll guess late twenties.
No one is perfect and I'm not saying that I am. I am saying that if two people are adaptable they can work toward making themselves "perfect" for each other. In that sense my proposal to you is that (if we are compatible) I can come closer to the "perfect" husband you are looking for than anyone else will. That's not based on me thinking more highly of myself than I should, but on these things:
1) I'm looking for a woman who truly knows what to look for and places emphasis on qualities that make for a successful marriage -- in contrast to either trying to make the wrong person fit the bill, or focusing on things that do not impact long-term success.
2) I'm very comfortable with change and highly adaptable, which means that it's very likely that I can more than "meet you in the middle" in areas where we differ. Likewise, I'm looking for a woman who has equally mastered the ability to embrace change and to adapt for the better.
3) I've demonstrated the above principles in past relationships, including my former marriage. References available :)
4) My professional career was built largely upon making similar challenges in the business World, and then being able to deliver on my promises. I might be facing competition from hundreds or thousands of competing candidates, and have to be able to prove my case and prevail. Likewise, Internet dating makes me simply one of thousands of men you could potentially extend the privilege to of getting to know better.
Being a truly romantic fellow I believe there is nothing more romantic than finding the person who is truly right for you. That's why I listed here those things that count most. If we don't have the right qualities, or if you are superficially looking at or for the wrong things, nothing else matters anyway. If you are as serious and sincere about finding the right husband as I am about finding the right wife, we can use email to explore more expressively and less formally than space limitations allow here.
I'll use my remaining space to say that I'm looking for a very intelligent, well rounded, and mature woman, who is what she says she is.
The only sure thing in life IS CHANGE; and those people most able to adapt and change themselves are those most likely to be successful, including in their marriage. That's why I'm looking for a woman who, as I am, is committed to continuous improvement, lifelong learning, and personal development. Not one to settle for, "average, " but continually improving herself and enriching the lives of her mate and those around her -- and preferring the company of those who live by the same principles, including strong moral principles.
Intelligent, confident, able to learn new things quickly and adaptable; and, most of all, a woman who is insightful and well reasoned, as in a good game of chess :) Because couples lacking the ability to reason together will never achieve ultimate success and happiness no matter how hard they try.
If in addition to the above you consider yourself to be above average, truly health and fitness conscience (toned and/or athletic), spiritual (good values), disciplined, impeccably clean (including good hygiene), and truly, truly romantic (you believe the honeymoon does NOT have to end), then let's talk further!
I ask for nothing that I do not offer in return.