Just be yourself that is the most important thing. Be Honest, Kind, Understanding and love the other person for who they are and love them for whom they are not!Do not compare as each of us has our own indivual character! If you want to write to me, you are welcome. In the near future I would want to see your face thru the web cam, so that I will know you are the actual person as you say you are! For those w/out web cam and who want to talk to me, I will NOT entertain you! Don't be to be offened. Being Honest from the beginning will lead to a good start!