I'm looking for a partner to spend time with, someone who is comfortable with themselves, and can accept me the way I am, and my children. Family is extremely important to me, so any family activities you show interest in would be a definate plus for you. I have a great smile, love to laugh. Enjoy havin' fun. When you are around me, I like to make sure you feel like you are the only other person in the room. I adore a partner who is kind at heart. He must be loving, protective, have a great sense of humor, and basically be content with spoiling me affectionately, in return he'd feel comfortable being spoiled affectionately also. Most importantly he would understand and realize that my children are first priority with me, so to I guess in a sense you'd be tackling three hearts and not just me. If u can manage that, there might be hope afterall-lol! We'd respect one others needs and independence. I like my "me" time. I think "me" time is healthy for any couple. I would want him to be independent, a hardworker, opinionated, above all family oriented, with a positive value system in place. I'd spend time with him by going to a local sporting event especially if it's Hockey ( I love watching hockey!). I enjoy the symphony. Comedy show. Actually any local event in town I'd be up for. If it's raining we'd play cards, or rent some movies/munch popcorn, or I'd enjoy conversation with him by talking about mostly anything. Camping and fishing would be awesome. He needs to be confident, great attitude about life and people in general. He'd make me feel so beautiful. I believe that great positive steady communication is the number one key to a successful relationship, and above all Trust and Respect. I think once all of that is established I believe Love just comes Naturally. I do not profess to know what love is. . . I only know what Love is not. In all honesty and seriousness(giggles), I am searching for stability/constistancy. A positive emotional connection with my potential partner- bare with me if I seem apprehensive when getting to know you at first, I'm not too familiar with "normalcy". Now I think I'm ready to find out what it's like :). Im as honest a person as they come. I wear my heart on my sleeve, and try to help people whenever an oppurtunity arises. I am a single mom I worry about my lil ones growing up w/o that father figure around, and I sometimes get exhausted playing both mom and dad roles. . . But I love my children dearly and like My faith in god I place them before me and all things. I just want my partner to understand that and hopefully except that. I would more than love to start a ffamily with the right guy. . . I don't beleive I am in the wrong when I say I do not believe in physical relation with out a committment, I know it's soooo old fashion but that is the way that god intended. I do not pretend to be a perfect person but I do want the best for me and my lil ones. I would like to be able to come home to that special someone and come home to a nice long warm embrace with I missed you soooo much! being said to me everyday, and other nice things that you are wonderful and incredible . . . I want my man to be happy that I can love him for the person he his and wants to be and that I will stand beside him 100% in what he wants to accomplish in life and as a family. I believe love should be unconditional no matter what the circustances, and that it takes two people to want to make it work. Love to me is mutual trust, honesty, respect, and lookin out for each others best interests. I am a simple person, with a huge heart. I am content being single, be just really think that I'd feel incredible sharing my life with someone who wants to be loved, not treated like they are taken for granted. I don't do well with guessing games, so I would would my man to be honest in all that he wants, and i'd try my best to help make his and my dreams come true. He'd be wonderful, I'd feel incredibly blessed to share life with him.