I am married not a widow. Put that since I had no choice slot for married. I was a widow for four yrs before remarrying. Am not looking for love but a christian to correspond with as a friend only. Some one to talk to when life showers you with rainbows and tulips and when life spours rain down on you and the sun is hidden from view. To share tales of your children and life experience that makes you bust a stitch or tales that can scar the heart. To share travel experiences with.