I immigrated to New Zealand 10 years ago from South Africa, sadly my husband and I separated 3 years ago and recently got divorced. I have 2 beautiful children a boy and girl that live with me. I attend the Baptist church here in Kaiapoi (New Zealand). I am looking for Christian friends; to chat too. God is the most important person in my life besides my 2 children. I am a very focused person and although I find it very lonely being by my self, I know god will bring someone into my life in his time What I am looking for in a relationship the guy must be a committed Christian , high moral be focused and hard working Having come out of a 14 year marriage, speaking from experience friendship and honesty is very important in a marriage.