I only came on with a free trial so I no longer can communicate with anyone. I don't plan to join at this time. . . Having that deep connection where you can talk about anything, good or bad, and know that it is "safe" to share it. Having a soundingboard to check yourself and make sure you're on the right track. Relationships are the best way to allow yourself to be molded by God because you have someone who truly knows who you really are and they aren't going to allow you to be anything but yourself. A relationship can't be one-sided, you both have to be in it together giving 110% each. Genuine Christianity to me means having a love for God, repentance from sin, humility, devotion to see God's glory in all that He does, continual prayer, selfless love, separation from the world, spiritual growth and obedient living. We don't have to do any of it in our own strength but with Christ living in us. . . those are the signs that someone knows who He is in a very personal and real way. God bless you in your walk.