Okay, seriously men, I just finished looking a lot of profiles - some good, some not so good. But, I noticed 2 over-riding themes in a lot of you. 1) You're waiting for Ms. Right to contact you . . . be a man and write the ones you're interestedin - we've been told our whole lives that you want to do the chasing, so why would we start now. If you're not a member - become one, don't tell us to spend the $ and take the initiative. Grow up! 2) y'all are really picky. There's not a perfect woman out there, they don't exist, just like perfect men don't exist. If you really want to find someone, be willing to get to know her, not just to look at her to decide if she's pretty enough for you. Okay, getting off my soapbox now, but I had to say it. I love the Lord and people. I love working with kids, which is why I love my job. My life goal would be to serve in a camp-type ministry with my husband.