I am looking for a relationship centered on the Lord, walking by faith in everything (praying together regularly is essential). A relationship that is full of communication, acceptance, playfulness, and be involved in society institutions and a church. Romantically speaking, I want a relationship that is affectionate and adventurous. I also want more children (one more), thus I am attracted to people who also wants more children. Being able to work out at the gym with my mate will also be nice. In addition I believe that a woman can be a good mom and wife and a career. However, that means that as the husband, I need (and want to) pull 50% of the household duties, like cooking and cleaning. I am a looking for a Christian female who is spiritual (lover of God first), Sexy/Sexual, Experiential, Open Minded, Not Narrow-Minded or Rigid, educated, refined, flexible, is concern how she looks, young at heart, wants more children and wants me to be the spiritual leader of our household. I consider myself as sensitive, but silently strong, determined (sometimes too much so) but flexible, sensual (but Christ centered), and family centered (I have sacrificed career opportunities to be a single dad). For those of you who care, my Keirsey personality score is that of an idealist [NEFJ]. I guess my personal style is laid back and flexible, kind hearted and a gentleman. I can not be put in a box sooo easily. I am an enigma, not your conventional Christian as defended by many people. I believe very strongly in applying the Scriptures to my life and see no other alternative but to live by faith in ALL things. Thus I tithe and have daily devotionals, studding (not just reading) the Bible. I believe it is Gods will to heal and prosper the children of God, if we strive to walk by faith. However, I also believe that if the Scripture does not explicitly deal with an issue, then the right or wrong of it is strictly between the person and the Lord. I am not concern with any traditional views of how a Christian should live their life. I enjoy outdoors activities like camping, volleyball, mountain biking, and the beach. I also enjoy working out, billiards, and going the movies, traveling and dancing. I also like watching sporting events like football and baseball. I am also active in my church. In the past I have taught single parent classes, lead adult singles and married professionals in several large Churches. Currently I am in transition and not sure what the Lord wants me to do next in the way of a ministry. I have been active in politics sense I was in 5th grade and a goal of mine is to work in Sacramento or Washington DC, holding elective office. Please note: To be honest, if you are living outside of the US, I am not sure how we will connect because of distance. Do not get me wrong, I believe that the Lord can move mountains and if He wants us to connect then the Pacific or Atlantic will not be an issue. However, because of the distance I will need to be very motivated to pursue anything outside of the US.