ABOUT MY LIFE: It's all about giving, because I've learned it all comes back. . . multiplied. . . big time. It's been a real good life, because the Lord and I make it happen! Married 20 yrs--divorced-engaged once since then, have aMAZing, grown sonsand large fun, extended family. I'm here seeking a man looking for a potential mate who is willing to !), or a man whose never been married, or a widower! I miss the positive attributes of marriage like nurturing, welcoming home my loveat the end of his days, supporting him through life's trials, and being "his glue". But I'm no dreamer, I'm aware of the challenges of relationships and am up for it. ABOUT MYSELF: I'm all about laughing and loving, teaching/inspiring and learning, and occasionally being a klutz:) I am timidly putting my heart out here to cherish & be cherished. If you look up synonyms for "unpretentious" that's pretty much who I am. I'm bubbly and vivacious. I'm in good health, although I've not climbed Mt. Whitney lately. I line dance and ball room dance, dabble in photography, train my dog in agility courses, read voraciously, and study art, sing music, play piano, attend concerts and plays. I feel kinda like I'm rambling here so moving on! ABOUT YOU: You love your dog/cat/kids and God, but not necessarily in that order! I've noticed a man wise enough to be devoted to his kids/pet/God is usually kind to all. You value high integrity and might have an innate need to nurture and be nurtured. Your life would be full, but you are possibly keeping secret that you have a soul mate shaped hole in your heart. I'd relish meeting, having silly and serious conversations with, go kayaking or cooking with. . . you.