I am contented with who I am and what I have, but still have a desire to get to know and love a man who values the same things I do. The things I value in a relationship are loyalty, honesty, trust, sense of humor, compassion and a positive attitude. I also value my relationship with God - it's personal and very real. I treasure friendship and would want a relationship with any man to begin at that point. That friendship can only deepen with spending time together, talking about anything and everything. An absolute "comfort zone" should develop between us that only strengthens the physical, intellectual, social and spiritual attractiveness between us. I don't believe that there is a "perfect" man out there, just as I am not the "perfect" woman - no one can be - we all have flaws. But I do believe that as couples spend time together, that they will know within their heart and mind whether it is the "right one. " It goes way beyond feelings - although they are very important - but it is more about the security, the assurance that each is giving to the relationship 100% and very proud and satisfied of that fact.