My life has taken on a different direction in the last few months. I sat back and re-evaluated what I feel is important to me. I am pretty simple and to the point. I love animals, my family, education, creativity and God. Through out the years I have played on this web site and I did meet an ex boyfriend on here. It was an experience I grew from and changed my point of view. I am going to be honest When it comes to men that have a potential to be something in my life I am pretty particular with what I am looking for. I am not willing to compromise. No one should ever compromise. I am pretty straight forward about the way I look and my lifestyle I expect the same. None of this "here is a picture from 10 years ago stuff. " " or by the way I am married, but its complicated" Just be honest. I respect that. If I made a list of things I find attractive in another person. . . obviously I have to find them physically attractive. I am 5'9 so being taller then me is a good start. Being clean is very important to me. Neatness, creativity and I appreciate outgoing men. I love animals so that has to be something that is not going to ever come up as an issue. In other words if having a dog in the house is a deal breaker. . I am not your girl. I love sarcastic quick wit. . . . . ability to communicate is always appreciated. I don't have an issue meeting men. The issue I have is the substance in the soul of the men I meet. I am not saying these guys are jerks or that I think I am better than them. . . . Their nice but I think its my point of view that has started to change.