I am as"REAL" as it gets. I hate playing all the high school dating games of waiting for people to call or acting like I am not interested in order to gain someones interests. I have had it all and I have lost it all. I have been the cheater, and I have been cheated on. I have been the taker and also the giver. I have finally came to the point in my life where Im ready to take all the lessons and life trials and put them all together and apply them with another I am looking for someone to spend the rest of my life with. This dating stuff is hard work. I think Im ready to retire. lol Life is to short & time is to valuable at this point in my life for all that. So if you are the type of person who see's the cup as half full, rather than half empty & believes that life is a two way street. Not a one way dead end? Then I hope your still reading. However if you are one who chooses to "see" life with rose colored glasses on and think that "Good things should come easy?" See your way out of my site please. NEXT!!!