Hi I live in Essex not a stay at home mum as I work full time for the government but not how you might imagine!!!This is very scary!!!! But I like to be upfront and honest and am looking for a potential partner who feels the same, so here goes. . . . . . . I'm looking for someone I can look after who will do the same in return. Someone with a fab sense of humour who will keep me smiling and laughing. I really want to find my true soulmate who will just love me for who I am. I do need lots of TLC as I still bare the scars of abandonment of me and my bubba and those whose loss it was to let go of me! I have got a hell of a lot of love, care and attention to give back to the right person. It is not really important what you do for a living or how much you earn as long as you are genuine, honest, kind and can make me laugh. You must like kids as well but it doesn't matter if you have any of your own or not. I am a bit old fashioned as well and like the romantic type. If you have a degree in hug administration and you think you can put a smile back on my face then get in touch, even if it is just to make a new friend as you can never have too many of them either!!! Thanks for reading all this extremely detailed thesis anyway!!!! Go what have you got to lose They haven't sailed yet? the thousand ships that will launch my smile!!!