I am a very easygoing person who definitely takes the time to enjoy the simple things in life. A sense of humor and intelligence are probably the two biggest traits that I'm looking for in someone. I love a good discussion/argument with someonethat realizes we can have totally opposite opinions and still respect each other for theirs. Intelligence is important . I absolutely hate narrowmindedness, afterall it's a great big interesting world out there and it would be shame to miss most of it. I'm usually attracted to that person that takes the time to think of others and has a big heart. He should also be strong enough and capable of standing up for himself (doormats need not apply) . I am definitely a cuddler so I hope that you are too. My biggest turn-offs are arrogance, meanness, and materialism. A quirky sense of humor, sarcasm that isn't mean spirited, a general sense of adventure and willingness to at least try new things, a generosity w/ long slow massages and backrubs ( I DO reciprocate ) , and an interest in constantly learning no matter what the topic are all definitely qualities I can appreciate in a partner. Especially the part about backrubs : ) Hoping to avoid anyone still bitter about past relationships. Please learn from it, try to forgive, and move on. I'm far from perfect and the person I date probably will be too. I figure we can work on that together. If you think you are intereted or just want to know more contact me!