I'm fun and very easy going. . . I value friendship and love being a support and encouragement to the ones I make. . . I enjoy giving and those closest to me will know this to be true. My outrageous sense of humour is what keeps me going and people say it's this that they find most attractive about me. I'm wise enough not to listen too heavily on what people 'SAY' but rather on what they 'DO'. . "You say it better when you say nothing at all"I am a positive person who enjoys the 'lighter side' yet caring and loving enough to lend a listening ear when needed. Once committed I am very passionate, romantic and faithful. . however I do believe in "friends first then see what happens"The person I am looking for would be comfortable both sipping cocktails in a 5 star lounge or simply laughing with me and getting our fingers grotty eating chips and gravy. My husband of 16 years died from an aggressive cancer. I nursed him until sadly he went while I was at his bedside. Consquently with two children I have not had time to think very much about what I want. Although I am not really here to start a 'marriage' relationship I do know all things start from friendships and that is what I am looking for first. I have many close friends but there comes a time when the soul simply longs for something more. I am very busy with my business and need some 'time out' with someone special. Someone who I can share 'everyday life' with. I know there is a soul mate out there who can come along side me and cause my heart to smile again. . . I do have alot to look forward to and many exciting times ahead. I dont regret what I have been through but welcome the opportunity to become a stronger person. It has also given me a greater depth of love.