The SURGE of the URGE!
Have you ever heard the expression, "The Urge to Merge"?
It is a term relating to sexuality and marriage. The "URGE" symbolizes
sexual interest, and the "MERGE" symbolizes marriage union.
We see it all around us!
Late night TV bombards us with sexual images and sensual content.
Commercials that have nothing to do with sex use a sensual foundation to
market to the masses. More than ever in history our minds seem to be more
interested in the sex-drive channel than in channeling the sex-drive.
We call this, "The SURGE of the URGE".
Let's travel back in time about sixty years before we became so
technologically advanced and started opening up the bedroom door for anyone
with an appetite and "prying eyes". Many of the older generation know of
what time I speak! Back when some things were still considered sacred and
"The SURGE of the URGE" was yet in the future.
It used to be that life was about marriage and family principles. It used to
be that faith and family were the criteria for determining life success. In
other words, it was about the "MERGE". Family and relationship building
principles for living was the norm.
Then came The Beatles, Elvis, Rock-and-Roll and yes, Hugh Hefner and
Gradually our society began to shift its thinking and embrace a mindset for
the "URGE" itself. The sexual revolution stepped onto the horizon, and "The
SURGE of the URGE" was born and became the focus.
Sadly, and to our demise I might add, the "MERGE" has been placed on the
shelf and in many cases mocked and ridiculed.
For over fifty years now we have been a world dominated with a fascination
for the "URGE". Playboy, Penthouse, Hustler, Strip Clubs, Porn Movies, Girls
Gone Wild, Spring Break, Wild On, etc. The Music Industry lyrics display
this same "URGE" mentality and, of course, let's not forget the recent
Halftime Super Bowl antics.
We even went through a time in recent history where the "URGE" became the
main topic of conversation surrounding the Presidency of the United States.
Maybe, instead of just enacting and enforcing laws and high-dollar
fines...maybe, instead of just issues of censorship...maybe, instead of just
battling it out in the boardroom and courtroom...maybe we should do
something so foreign as to go back to the shelf, dust off the idea that
marriage and family life is where it's really at and get our focus back on
the importance of the "MERGE".
Being wanted for a "Night of a Lifetime" can never fully satisfy, fulfill or
replace the greatest longing of our hearts for being wanted for a "Lifetime
Let's all consider taking the "MERGE" down from the shelf. Marriage and
family life will always play the greatest role in our civilization.
The greatest gift we will ever give the world is a stable home.
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Stanley J. Leffew is the Author of, "How To Be Wanted For a Lifetime of
Nights and Not Just a Night of a Lifetime". His website is based on this
same theme. Discover for yourself what happens when we lead-with-the-body in
life and relationships at http://advice-for-lifetime-relationships.com